So Kristian is sick again :( I have to take him to PMH shortly which really upsets me as he has been there 6 times now due to colds and flus and last time his lung collapsed and was put on oxygen. I love my little man so much but I really wish e could just stay healthy and well for more than a week!
woohoo we are so much better off 5k baby bonus, lifted medicare levy, tax cut, 50% child care rebate. plus I get a pay rise on 30th June which means we will be better off 80 bucks a week :P
I have chosen a Winnie the Pooh theme and plan to do fairy bread and all that kinda stuff plus some soft finger foods for the younger ones. I am looking into a small bouncy castle for the older ones and for his bday present was thinking of getting him one of those small plastic gym kits although he will probaby still be too small for it even at 2, any suggestions on stuff like that I can get that will be more age appropriate? I am only inviting ppl with babies/children (apart from grandparents) and I still have about 50 ppl coming Holy Shite!
So ppl have you any ideas on games/food/decorations I should do?
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creative
By no means would I be classed as a 'crunchy' mum, I do not cloth diaper nor do I breastfeed anymore (although I did) and cosleeping made me a zombie the next day, but I was a little dumbfounded when I heard on the radio this morning that 29% of women drink whilst pregnant and that 57% of them would drink again in a future pregnancy.
As I said I am not but no means a perfect mum but I really dont understand why women would do that, same with smoking why would you take the slightest sip or puff when you really dont know how harmful that little bit can be. I know a sip/puff doesnt seem a lot but why take the chance when they say even the slightest may be harmful. Maybe I find this disturbing as I dont smoke nor drink normally but I must say I was in shock when I heard the stats on this.
/end rant
- Mood:
confused
Whats new? Ummmm we still havent finished our backyard :( cause we are lazy and we really dont have that much time at the moment as we both work and we like the weekends with Kristian.
Kristian is good he has 6 teeth now and is walking with his little pusher!! (crazy right) He was 8 months old on the 24th April so I am hoping when we go away in October he will be a runner :P
Oh yeah we are going on holiday :P We are going to Phuket for 10 nights in October which will be nice as I would like to do a bit of shopping plus it mixes things up a little and gives us a break from work. I did up a package and it is costing us $2200 for airfares, accomodation, insurance, breakfasts and transfers for the 3 of us for 10 nights, cool hey :P
Work has been going well we get a pay rise in July so not too far away from that!. I am a little annoyed though as I thought we would get out child care payments and benefits after the tax year but I found out that it is the following year, so really they are behind 12 month :(
Although Kristian's birthday is still 3 and a half months away it has got me thinking what we will be doing. I really dont want anything major but I do want it to be enjoyable so I was thinking a mini bouncy castle or something for the kids old enough and I am buying Kristian a play centre for outside so he will eb able to play in that with the smaller kids.
We had a pregnancy scare the other week, which made me realise I am not mentally, physically or financially ready for another baby quite yet or in the next few months in fact, maybe its watching him get older that I am craving a baby again but I really want him to be ably to stay a baby as long as he wants without being forced to grow up as another baby is on the way. Am I the only crazy mum wanting another baby already? :)
I have lost 2 kilos this week which is good so 4 kilos down only another 1003264465784541kgs to go :)
1. A body of water, smaller than a river, contained within relatively narrow banks.
CREEK
2. What the thing you push around the grocery store is called.
SHOPPING TROLLEY
3. A metal container to carry a meal in.
LUNCH BOX
4. The thing that you cook bacon and eggs in.
FRYPAN
5. The piece of furniture that seats three people.
LOUNGE
6. The device on the outside of the house that carries rain off the roof.
GUTTER
7. The covered area outside a house where people sit in the evening.
PORCH
8. Carbonated, sweetened, non-alcoholic beverages.
COOL DRINK
9. A flat, round breakfast food served with syrup.
PANCAKE
10. A long sandwich designed to be a whole meal in itself.
SUBWAY
11. The piece of clothing worn by men at the beach.
BORDIES
12. Shoes worn for sports.
TRAINERS
13. Putting a room in order.
TIDING UP
14. A flying insect that glows in the dark.
NEVER SEEN ONE!
15. The little insect that curls up into a ball.
SLATER
16. The children's playground equipment where one kid sits on one side and goes up while the other sits on the other side and goes down.
SEESAW
17. How do you eat your pizza?
POINTED END FIRST
18. What's it called when private citizens put up signs and sell their used stuff?
GARAGE SALE
19. What's the evening meal?
DINNER
20. The thing under a house where the furnace and perhaps a rec room are?
BASEMENT
21. What do you call the thing that you can get water out of to drink in public places?
WATER FOUNTAIN
- Kristian 7 months 1 week old (and a few days) is crawling and also in the midst of pulling himself up on things
- Kristian's operation is on Tuesday but he has a cold so that may be cancelled
- We need to finish our laundry side of the house with pebbles
- We are broke
- We are planning a trip to somewhere in Oct/Nov
- We have a wedding to go to in Sept that I would like to lose weight for
- I would like a pay rise but I dont think that will happen
- I have payroll tomorrow at work which totally sucks
- I need to get my car serviced soon but like I said we are broke
- I hate Matt getting paid Monthly
- I am so wanting a new little baby right now as Kristian seems so grown up and has started with the tempers and trying out our patience
- After thinking about what I just typed I realised we are so not ready for a new baby now
- My hair is really nice and healthy at the moment and has grown really long
- I need to get Charlie (our dog) a haircut as he is way too overgrown
- This week we are not allowed to buy any juice as I think I have an addiction (I drink like 6 glasses a day)
- I found out one of the friends I went to school with is an international model doing ads and such for a company in Paris
- I really love the music from sick puppies atm
- I love my son to bits
- I love facebook add me my name is Joe Bloggs and yes I really used that as a name :P Im the one in Australia with the wedding pic :P
HOWDY HOWDY HOWDY :P
So easter is nearly here and although I am annoyed I'm not going away I am still excited as this will be Kristians first easter :P even though he wont really know whats going on its all still exciting!
Thanks to everyone that replied and what I should do with the sister dilemma and I have decided to let her come to me when she is ready and understands it isnt all my fault and that they are to blame as well.
Kristian is good! He is getting bigger everyday he is 9.2kg and is 75cm long!!! Pretty Long hey :P His eating schedule has changed a little as now he is having 3 solid meals a day and 3 bottles in between. He has some rice cereal for breakky then Fruit for Lunch (pureed) and then mashed veges for dinner (all homemade) He is sitting up and can push himself around on the floor and will move in a circle, he attempts crawling by getting on all fours and rocks but has only ever taken 1 step so it still may be a while yet. He still has only got the two bottom teeth but he is getting the same teething rash back on his face the same as what he had with the bottom two so maybe there is a toothey peg coming down sometime soon.
Well everything at home is going well, I am getting really clucky for another baby (no idea where it is coming from though) Maybe when Kristian turns 1 I will think again :P
About 6 months ago my sister had just had her little boy Cooper and she was living with her bf in midland in a rental. Mum and dad had gone away and Hope and Dwayne couldn't afford to pay rent anymore so they had to move and were kicked out so they moved all their stuff and themselves into my parents place which happens to also be home to my brother (he is only 17) and be around the corner from me. From what I understood they were doing okay and from what I was told they had to move as the house sold, and not that they were broke and had no money as the bf was using it all on his drug habit. So one morning I get a phone call with my sister crying on the phone saying that she had put her bf in jail and that I need to look after Cooper which I agreed to. She came over and dropped him off and explained Dwayne (the bf) was really nasty towards her verbally and that he was doing burnouts and had taken drugs and took off down the road with his 2 month old son in the car then while the baby was in the car slammed on the handbrake so she called the cops on him. The police arrived and searched his car finding drugs and as he had no licence was charged and taken to remand (I think thats how you spell it). So my parents called asking what the hell was happening as they heard bits and pieces from family members so I explained the situation as my sister said she would never go back to him after what he did to Cooper, and my parents had a right to know it was their house! So my parents kicked him out of the house and told him they needed space from him and to stay away so he did for 2 weeks :/ well.......
What happened yesterday....
I was emailing my sister about what I needed to bring (yes she got back with him after a day) aswe were all (my whole family) going to spend easter at her house down in busselton (he got a job and does regular screenings and has seemed to of changed?) but I got an email saying she had a difficult question to ask me so I said go ahead. She asked me to say sorry to Dwayne for getting him kicked out the house as it was my fault that everything happened and it wouldnt of if I didnt say anything. So in a rage I replied 'I will not apologise as I have done nothing wrong and he has to realise that I was looking out for you and Cooper' so then I get numerous nasty emails saying that she only puts up with my because of Kristian and she doesnt really like me and that we are not welcome at her house anymore and that he said we are not allowed to see them which she said she agrees with!
Well I was in absolute rage! My sister has told me I am not welcome in her life because I will not say sorry for Dwaynes bad habits/actions.
So yesterday was a killer, I cried, I cried some more then finally anger took over and I am at a point now where I really dont care if I see them again or not. So basically my whole family is going away but we are not allowed to see them as they said we are not welcome. How do I forgive her?
- Mood:
annoyed
The observation that family members tend to be of similar stature is born out by formulas designed to predict height. One commonly quoted formula uses parental height and gender to predict adult height (in inches) as follows:
· For men: (height of mother + height of father + 5)/2
· For women: (height of mother + height of father – 5)/2
If you know your parents’ heights, see if this formula predicts yours well; for most people, this will accurately predict your height within 2 or 3 inches.
Height (or, more accurately, length) at birth and during the first 3 years does not predict ultimate height well; the same goes for foot size. Although a sudden increase in shoe size heralds the beginning of rapid growth around the time of puberty, foot size itself is a very poor predictor/indicator of ultimate height.
Other ways to predict height take information from childhood growth charts (see below), your parents’ height, and a reading of your “bone age.” Bone age is assessed by X-rays that indicate how much development has already occurred in the skeleton and how much more is possible; for example, if the growth plates are still open, more growth is likely. The closer you are to final height (by virtue of your age or the finding of closed growth plates on X-rays), the better these formulas predict height.
The Bottom Line
If you are like most healthy people, your height is somewhere between that of your parents, closer to your father’s if you are male, closer to your mother’s if you are female. Once you have reached your adult height, there’s not much you can do about it, but you may be able to prevent some of the loss of height during aging.
Everything is going well, Kristian is great! Growing bigger every single day, his hair is growing so fast. We have also set down that this Dec/Jan we will be trying for another one making the kids 2 years apart which would be nice.
Matthew has been training for this new position that may open up in the next 6 - 12 months so that will be good as the average wage for the position is 90k - 120k which means I will not have to work, even though I think I will still work 1 - 2 days a week to keep my sanity :P
We are still waiting on the gate down the side of my house so the house will be finished. I really want to repaint as we painted 2 and a half years ago and I can see chips but then I think wait till my kids are bigger as I am sure there will be many more chips to come.
I need to start losing weight as I weight more than what I did when I was 9 months pregnant! Which really is not good. So today I plan to eat healthy and hopefully in 3 months I will have lost 15kgs, wish me luck.
We have also planned to go to Hong Kong in November, which I am really looking forward too as disneyland is there :P
Oh well I better go clean some as Kristian is napping and when he wakes I want to sit down and play with some of his toys with him.
Development wise he is good, he can sit unassisted and if we hold him by his hands he will stand there for a good 5 mins without shaking or wobbling, he will even sometimes step forward. He isnt a tummy baby he loves standing up or being sat up. He can roll both back to front and front to back but has no interest in pulling his knees under him yet. He tried to go for toys but somehow he ends up going backwards :P He is starting to know what things are as we grab his dummy and he will grab it off of us and put it in his own mouth. He has also just started to reach out for us to pick him up. He has now got his two lower teeth and has the top 2 breaking through now.
Rhiannon :)
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happy
Its 9.33pm and I am sweating like anything as I think I have a virus. Today at work was awful it felt like someone had spiked my drinks and I was drunk!
I cant believe how quick the past 5 months have gone, I remember holding a tiny baby and now he is sitting up. WOW Hey!
So there has been much talk and consideration on when we may be having another child or well trying for the 2nd, and we said that at the end of this xmas we will try and get pregnant again, making them 2 years apart. I am so scared of going through labour again as my labour was indeed not the quickest (59 hours) and some what horrific, do you think in a year men would be able to give birth?
Well time for a cool shower and then bed me thinks :)
Good night
I started back at work on the 7th and it has been alright, a lot better than what I was expecting, I have come to realise I do really like my job. I do have to whinge though about how much day care costs! its like $60 a day, which I suppose when you look at it to raise your child really isnt that much money. He is very good at day care, he doesnt cry and will sleep when you put him down and he loves being cuddled :)
Kristian has been good, he is so cute and can now roll front front to back and back to front and is in the midst of sitting by himself! Not bad for a nearly 5 monther :P I am finding that everyone keeps asking me when are we going to start feeding him solids, but I dont see why I should start feeding my 5 month old baby solids yet. It kind of ticks me off as it makes me feel like I am not doing the right thing for him but I just feel he is not ready at this stage, we decided that about 6 months was the go for rice cereal and the rest can wait till he is at least 7 months. Am I being paranoid?
In other news we bought a new car woohooooo... Its a Hyundai Tucson in silver and its excellent! We now have room to fit stuff into our car as the focus was way too small and we couldnt even go shopping properly. We still need to find Matt a new car as I think the magna is going to die very shortly :(
Anyway I am suppose to be cleaning my house as we have to take Kristian to his birthday parties on the week (ahahaha how cute is that)
Oh well off to cook dinner yay not... :P
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